Why do we need to find ourselves and what does it really mean to find ourselves? What happens if we never do?

We need to find ourselves to find purpose and meaning.
Without purpose and meaning some people go on forever searching for things
when they don't even know what it is. So if you don't find yourself you may wander
aimlessly through your life.
Glad you seemed to have calmed down today.

I found myself once... He was such a prick, much like myself, I decided it was best to never approach myself ever again.