Nosy neighbor - how to react?

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Przem Mosky Profile
Przem Mosky answered

A neighbor is very interested in your life and your family. He comes to you several times a day under any pretext. She wants to know everything, her questions are often indiscreet and give you "good advice" that you do not always need. Of course, you do not want to offend her, so you try to put up with it, but it's getting harder and harder for you. What to do? Nosy people need to set boundaries that they can not cross.

1. A neighbor may not interfere in your life so much. You should talk to her honestly about it. It's important to do it calmly, without raising your voice or blaming it. If you express your reservations clearly, then your neighbor will understand your arguments more easily.

2. It is quite possible that the neighbor does not even realize that her behavior bothers her. You must define the boundaries that should not be exceeded in mutual contacts.

3. If, despite these arrangements, the neighbor again asks what you would prefer to keep for yourself, you can always say, "I do not want to talk about it" or "I do not have time now". This will allow you to protect your privacy. The decision on how much and to whom you tell about your life belongs only to you.

Kidddas WG Profile
Kidddas WG answered

get a surveillance camera with two way audio.

https://www.amazon.com/Ring-Spotlight-Cam-Wired-Plugged/dp/B0756P26HL/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1534278322&sr=8-4&keywords=ring+spotlight+camera&dpID=310yPbI-a%252BL&preST=_SY300_QL70_&dpSrc=srch

so u can tell ur neighbor to stop nosing around

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