Consoling someone who is mourning the loss of a loved one is indeed a delicate situation to be in. You need to be supportive and let the person go through his or her emotions concerning his or her loss.
Firstly, you need to let the mourner talk about his sorrow, without interrupting him or her in between. Offer advice only when you think it is needed. Mood swings are a natural part with coping from someone's loss, the most valuable thing you can give such a person is your patience. Do not rush the griever to 'let it go' and let the mourning take its natural course.
Communicate to the person that you are truly sorry for his or her loss, and that you are willing to lend your support to him or her. Ask the person if there is anything you can do for him or her. Show affection to make the person feel better.
Firstly, you need to let the mourner talk about his sorrow, without interrupting him or her in between. Offer advice only when you think it is needed. Mood swings are a natural part with coping from someone's loss, the most valuable thing you can give such a person is your patience. Do not rush the griever to 'let it go' and let the mourning take its natural course.
Communicate to the person that you are truly sorry for his or her loss, and that you are willing to lend your support to him or her. Ask the person if there is anything you can do for him or her. Show affection to make the person feel better.