An extensive video library of all your intimate moments will go along way to convincing the authorities.
I Married My Husband In IKOYI Federal Marriage Registry In Lagos Nigeria 2008My Government Is Denying Him His I130 VISA Because They Say We Can't Prove We Had A Legitimate Relationship Has Any One Else Have Such A Problem And What Did You Do About It?
You have to contradict the letter of the embassy, which is refusing the visa. Then explain exactly, how you met your husband, how you stay in touch (via telephone, e-mail etc.), what you have in common. Then they will reconsider everything. God bless you.